Add to your castom color scheme (personal style file, on the screen is specified as a filestyles/data/My_colors.less) one of the options below (CSS).
To remove the gear icon:
.ty-grid-list__item .ty-btn__primary:before, .ty-product-list .ty-btn__primary:before, .ty-compact-list .ty-btn__primary:before { display: none; }
To change the gear icon to the cart:
.ty-grid-list__item .ty-btn__primary:before, .ty-product-list .ty-btn__primary:before, .ty-compact-list .ty-btn__primary:before { content: “\f10f”; }